I Dream in Cuban

I Dream in Cuban

Sunday, January 21, 2018

As Usual, A Recap of the Holidays I was Too Busy To Post About On Time

First, Eva turned 14. She surprised me by actually wanting a birthday party this year. "Hey mom, next week let's have a movie party with a hot chocolate bar." You got it girl! Anything for my favorite teenage girl. I am not a social person so this was a bit harder to plan for then a tooth extraction because I always worry if everyone will have a good time, is there enough food, will the movie projector work, by the way, where is the movie projector. I don't know how Oprah does it. It is exhausting. But I think it was a success and with the Christmas decorations up and twinkling, I sort of wanted to sleep there myself. And with a movie theme you need a snack bar and popcorn stand as well. 










To get into the Christmas spirit we always make are trip over to Destin to ice skate, shop and watch Polar Express on the quad at the Sandestin Beach Resort. Of course, we make our Christmas list just in time to meet Santa when he comes to turn on the lights. 




 Between working on getting Mike's office ready for the new year, and Christmas prepping, it is always nice to just spend time with the kids baking or cuddling. I think each child helped me bake this year for which I was very grateful. 


As we do every Noche Buena, or December 24th, Cuban food is cooked, this year lichen asado, white rice, black beans, plantains and tres leches. Followed by reading about the birth of Christ in Luke and having the kids randomly pick names out of a hat and dress accordingly to stage the nativity scene. Unfortunately, Golden did not pick baby Jesus this year. The honor went to Carlos and it took all I had not to laugh when his sisters dressed him in a pull up diaper. Gigi was again Mary, Beau was Joseph, Golden was the angel and Eva a shepard with Nico the very wise man. How I love Christmas with these guys. 



Shortly after Christmas, we did something I had been dreaming of for a while. We packed up and headed out to see the Perry Family in Salt Lake. Before this trip, I was not a fan of SLC, I have had a tarantula try and kill me one trip, fainted on the plane into the city while pregnant with Eva and holding a young Golden, and lastly, crashed my rental car on the way to my nieces wedding. All that was in the past and I have to say, the stay at "Perry Hollow" in Mapleton was divine. From the second we landed, Natalie had us on a roller coaster of fun activities. 
Visiting Temple Square to see the lights, 





 Movies with the 15 children followed by ice cream.

A house full of fun for the kids of all ages including daily workouts with my good friend and Isagenix partner. 

Triplets and Nico's first snow adventure

Tubing and letting Eva have her IN and OUT burger fix. 



 Visiting an actual ice castle with ice slides. 




A day of obstacle courses and trampolines..


A New Orleans girls luncheon. So great to catch up with these gals.


I forgot to get pictures of the New Years midnight crepe party for 100 or so kids followed by fireworks. What a great way to start the year. Hopefully the rest will be just as amazing. 

This is just a lovely picture spot in Perry Hollow with the mountain backdrop. 






Saturday, January 20, 2018

Happy 9th Birthday Zachary



         As the night draws to a close, I'm glad when I can finally fall back on to the couch next to Mike. Another year, another birthday for Zachary filled with a house full of screaming nine year olds plus our rambunctious crew. But now, for the brief moments after we put all the kids to bed until we collapse in ours, the house is quiet. 

     "How do you think it went today?" Mike asks me. "If screaming is any measure of joy, I think we nailed it," I respond. I know what he's thinking, he tells me every year; "Why do you always go overboard with his birthday? On our birthdays we just got a cake." He's right. I do tend to try and one up his birthdays. Maybe if he wasn't so darn happy and grateful about it, more thoughtful then any boy his age should be, I wouldn't do it but we both know why. It's the knowledge that he almost wasn't that makes the celebration that much more meaningful. Just thinking about it makes me long to see him one last time tonight.

     As if reading my thoughts, and let's face it, after eighteen years together he can, Mike gives me a light shove, "Go on. Go see your boy." I climb up the stairs and quietly enter his room. There he is, bundled up under the sheet where all I can see in the dark is his disheveled locks peeking out. I try not to make a sound as I climb in with him and pull down the covers to see him. At nine years old it's hard to catch him standing still for a minute and when he is he would rather wrestle with dad or play ball with his brothers then snuggle with his mother. The older he gets, the less time it seems he has for me. But here, in the dark, with only the light of the moon, he is all mine. He looks so much younger than nine when he is at rest and so much like his father it makes my heart hurt. How can I love someone so much? I lean in close and kiss his soft cheeks and take a deep breath. Sweat and cake. That is what he smells like at nine. I don't want to forget that smell or this moment. I know I should head downstairs and clean up the mess left in the wake of the hoards of children but I resist and inhale one more time. This moment won't last long and I plan to savor it. 
Sweat and cake. How I love you Zachary. Happy birthday. 

    

   

Sunday, October 1, 2017

Summer Part II: The Mountain House





For some much needed R & R from the summer, we headed back to our favorite spot in the mountains. I have a dozen photos of this spot but one day I will put them all together to see how my family has grown through the years while the lake seems to stay wrapped in a time warp. I can remember the first time we came and Eva dared jump off the second story of the deck, this year Gigi joined her and Golden in the daredevil club and from the deck they carried on jumping off of most everything in the surrounding area. 








For a few moments we took them out to see the other sites, as you can see by their faces they just wanted to get back in the water. 


The traveling here is a chore, I'll admit as is the packing. They complain and demand things for the trip that make my head want to fall off but in the end, it is all worth it and one day very soon, they will not be so cuddly, so needy, so, so very close and I will miss it. So I take it all in stride and savor the in between moments that make life worthwhile such as all the time spent on the water. 










A new captain at the wheel this year

Captain Awesome and his sidekick Mr. Ham

I couldn't have said it better Nico


A few new faces made it out to the floats this year. Eva was so patient with Nico who didn't really feel quite at home yet in the vessel of death. 
 She helped the trips have a blast and especially with Gigi who likes to ski very slow and smooth almost like driving Miss Daisy slow. 





 Watching Carlos with Gigi was the best. He, a daredevil, would put a thumbs up for us to go faster while he stood up on the float and bounced over the waves. Simultaneously, Gigi would have her thumb down and frown whenever the  lake would even ripple. The true odd couple. 

The original duo of this family
 No matter what the combination, the views couldn't have been better. 








I forced my family to leave the comfort of the lake for a day to cruise through the Great Smokey Mountain National Park. We started at Mingo Falls, the went through the park with its winding roads that made me feel like I was filming one of those fancy car commercials,finally landing us in  Pigeon Forge for some serious race car racing. 





Mike left me a love note.

We made it to the Appalachian Trail and for the recored we were just 1971.5 miles from our goal of Katahdin, Maine. The natives were restless and slowed down my progress. 

Guess who slowed us down on the trail? Wrong, all of them.
 Our car hit a milestone in the Park, 100,000 miles. I'd like to say my family got out in the drizzle to take this picture because they love me so much and know I'm a sucker for documenting milestones OR they feared my wrath if they didn't. You decide. I cling to the former but fear it's the latter. 

Just feel the BMW commercial here
As we exited the park, a gang of elks just thought they'd give me a photo op. Look at that five point buck just hanging out on the side of the road. What an amazing world Heavenly Father has made for us. 




When we went go karting, I realized we have raised some really spectacular and thoughtful children. Whenever we would pass people, Carlos would say things like, "In your face loser." and "Eat my dust." Nico would stick to the more simple, "I'm a winner." and "Faster."




Just look at Nico's face. So excited to be a real man with his dad.



We stopped at REI and tried our hand at rock climbing. I will say this, we are definitely not billy goats. 




On another day, Mike and I went mountain biking at Tsali Trail. I have come to see the differences between us clearly on this trek. Mike said in mountain biking you have to pay to play. As we peddled up the first hill I couldn't believe how beautiful this all was and knew that this must be the play portion of the trip. Sure enough the down hill came, full of rocks, sharp turns and ditches bigger than my tire. I was petrified but kept thinking how up ahead would be another hill that would take my breath away. The one thing about those downhills though was that as I applied the breaks to get around the treacherous areas and went from side to side to avoid the cliffs that would surely end my life, my husband would race down with abandon reaching speeds that would make your clothes burn off. I lost sight of him because he went so fast and I found myself looking over the cliffs to see if he had fallen. I was angry he didn't drop something to let me know he had died at a certain spot for me to search. When we hit the first viewing section, overlooking the lake, he reminded me that we had to pay going up the hills in order to race down them. I was shocked how we viewed the same trip completely backwards. He was kind enough as we rode to scream warnings at me as we went downhill. To him, he would scream, "ditch, root, turn." Unfortunately, all I would here was "blah. blah. blah" because I was too busy not letting myself die!
     On a certain turn I saw a small orange flag sticking out of the ground, I screamed up to Mike, "Does this flag mark where someone died."  Just as I swerved to hit the flag and go around a sharp turn, I met up with a very large, hard and very sedentary tree. I fell on my butt very ladylike and decided I needed to recreate this moment in a picture for you. Now I know that the flag was a distraction from the forest in order to maim and even kill the people who dare roam in it. 



From our rest stop I got to appreciate the gorgeous view, and the lake was nice too. 



I guess when Mike sees the downhills in life he says, "Wee!!" Now I find myself saying, "The kids need me, who will clean the laundry if I break my arm? Who will drive them to school and ballet if my hip is ripped out of its socket? How will Mike ever feed them appropriately if I am in a coma? 

     He summarized it like this. "Sylvia, I am comfortable in physical crisis. You, on the other hand, our comfortable in an emotional one. It's how we were raised. I was a trick bike rider and exceptional football and baseball player, you were a shilock and part time mobster in grade school. Its what we know." 
I suppose that's why we complement each other so well. 


The forest trail before it tried to kill me
And speaking of physical crisis, for his early birthday present, I got Mike kayaking lessons. As we drove there he seemed a bit nervous and asked me if he would be okay. As a joke I told him his instructor would likely be some kid with long hair named Eli who would say stuff like "sweet" and "awesome". As we arrived to the NOC we were greeted by the guy below. 


"Hi, what's your name?" he asked Mike. When Mike introduced himself, Eli said, "sweet, awesome." I turned to Mike and whispered, "you're a goner." I kissed him goodbye as if it was our last and in true Mike form, six hours later I met up with him at the river where he had mastered the kayak. We have never been married long enough for him to stop surprising me. 







As we waited for Mike, we did the nets, some zip lining and swimming in the river at the NOC. 




How I climbed to the river's edge to photograph Mike


I love the mountain  house. I miss summer but most of all I miss making summer memories. 



A week later, we started school. Here are the trips with their first grade teacher Mrs. Proctor. 


My eigth grader without braces. 

My 10th grader, 1st graders, and Nico who is sad he is not going to school.


Until next time summer!